Necessary Mutilation

I so appreciate my “boss” and friend Kevin showing interest in my surgery and well-being at work today.  His questions didn’t sound like he was asking only to ensure others weren’t screwed in my absence - but reflected a genuine curiosity and investment in my process.  From such a busy, analytical, pragmatic man, I definitely consider this a compliment and an experience.  Thanks, Kevin … your sensitivity is like knowing how to talk to a grieving spouse at a funeral without sounding condesending or gratuitous, but genuinely connected, focused, and concerned.  Definitely refreshing, given some people’s reactions!